Comments on: On attachment http://pdf23ds.net/2006/07/25/on-attachment/ I will not be swayed be every small current; nor will the memes faze me or infect me. I am pure. I am intelligent. I am rational. I am at peace. Fri, 21 Nov 2008 14:23:41 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: Martha http://pdf23ds.net/2006/07/25/on-attachment/#comment-2077 Martha Wed, 01 Oct 2008 20:17:44 +0000 http://pdf23ds.net/?p=40#comment-2077 Having discovered that there are really no people you can trust, and no one that REALLY cares about you more than he cares for himself---I decided that I would BE that person to One human being---regardless of feeling. It is just an act of my will. However, this constant choosing becomes a small beginning toward curing my apathy and my depression. I am actually being a mentor to a younger girl who has experienced many of the things you describe. As I am required to do nothing but listen, she has somehow begun to find her way out of a labyrinth of confusion and despair. This is not an ideal solution for either of us (She does not realize the absense of my feelings), but it may be a way out for both of us. BE the person you are looking for, and see what happens. I would be interested in comparing experiences. I am 63--a married woman, and the friend is 32. Having discovered that there are really no people you can trust, and no one that REALLY cares about you more than he cares for himself—I decided that I would BE that person to One human being—regardless of feeling. It is just an act of my will. However, this constant choosing becomes a small beginning toward curing my apathy and my depression. I am actually being a mentor to a younger girl who has experienced many of the things you describe. As I am required to do nothing but listen, she has somehow begun to find her way out of a labyrinth of confusion and despair. This is not an ideal solution for either of us (She does not realize the absense of my feelings), but it may be a way out for both of us. BE the person you are looking for, and see what happens. I would be interested in comparing experiences. I am 63–a married woman, and the friend is 32.

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